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Use the library for 30 days. If it doesn't give you better words for the moments you're facing, email us and we'll refund you in full.

The Moment Finder: 68 moments in 8 groups, from "You never listen" to the morning after a good day. For each one: the line your instinct grabs, crossed out, what to say instead, what to do next, what to say if she pushes back, and the text version
5 Lines for This Week: where to start if you only read 1 page
The Small Lines: 23 short replies you'll use in almost every conversation
8 Whole Conversations, line by line, with the move behind each line
The Big Talk: a simple structure for the talk, and what to say when it goes sideways
Owning Your Part Once: how to take responsibility cleanly, 1 time, without groveling
Mirror & Validate: 50 examples
The 10 Phrases That Quietly Undo It
The Science Behind the Words: 54 references

Use the library for 30 days. If it doesn't give you better words for the moments you're facing, email us and we'll refund you in full.

The Moment Finder: 68 moments in 8 groups, from "You never listen" to the morning after a good day. For each one: the line your instinct grabs, crossed out, what to say instead, what to do next, what to say if she pushes back, and the text version
5 Lines for This Week: where to start if you only read 1 page
The Small Lines: 23 short replies you'll use in almost every conversation
8 Whole Conversations, line by line, with the move behind each line
The Big Talk: a simple structure for the talk, and what to say when it goes sideways
Owning Your Part Once: how to take responsibility cleanly, 1 time, without groveling
Mirror & Validate: 50 examples
The 10 Phrases That Quietly Undo It
The Science Behind the Words: 54 references
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